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Old 06-23-2011, 08:37 AM   #17
DodgingRain
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But through the turmoil is the part of ourselves that we loose something we need to loose?

Is what we are giving up the fear and the pain?

I think our GA/GSA is a false solution to our deepest pain that we have been searching for a long time for, they are not a love or a soul mate. Those feelings are byproducts of how we feel when we think we have found the answers. One can't help but love something that can fill that void regardless of it they are a person or a thing or an idea. When we realize they really are not that solution is when the healing can start to happen. Only by letting go of the false solution (our GA/GSA) do we start to get better and realize the solution is not external to ourselves.
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