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I think there are lots and lots of people who have sex when they "want to" - not only those who have GSA. It's what we as human beings do, and some do it more than others, for different reasons, that have nothing whatsoever to do with love. It is a gift, I believe, when the two people who participate, do so when they are on the same level of understanding, whether they're in love or not. Some use just for pleasure. People have been doing it for thousands and thousands of years, and quite well by the sounds of it!!
I think it really is time for society to take a look at itself when it comes to GSA. As long as others believe it is "bad" as you have just admitted to believing, then those of us who continue to feel it is just so damned right, will continue to struggle to change laws that surround this particular issue.
And the thing here is, you cannot spare anyone from experiencing pain. It is part of our growth and healing. It is when we feel pain the most that we take charge of our lives and change what no longer works.
And you are in such a wonderful position now to watch your grandchild bond with it's mother. You will see the absolute beauty and love that those two have for each other, that bonding is happening right before your eyes. THAT is what happens with GSA, only the timing is off. It is years later than when it should have happened. Keep that in mind as you watch your daughter love your grandchild. That is the love of GSA. That is what happens within this love too. Isn't it the most precious thing? THAT love, that bonding? Birthing and bonding are highly involved in what we all know as GSA. We have it because what you are watching with your daughter and grandchild was interrupted for many of us in a very cold and cruel way. The very same hormones that are working on mother and child are the very same ones that come into play in GSA.
Congratulations to you and your family and God Bless that little one. For he or she will know its mother. : )
With respect and love
Roe
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