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Originally Posted by roeschoice
The very same hormones that are working on mother and child are the very same ones that come into play in GSA.
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That is very true,
but not many Mothers dream of having sex with their baby son....
From birth to death this child remains a son to her.....
A mothers Role, does not extend to allowing her Adult son to take pleasure in her body just because he thinks that is what he wants.
Healing takes place on an emotional level..
Having sex with your biological son seems to be something that initially you felt you owed him because, if you denied him, you were not Properly Loving him !
Then you woke up and Decided to STOP enabling his bratty behavior and Offer him
~Unconditional LOVE ~on "the condition" that he only comes near you when he knows how to Treat you properly...
and This is your Gift to yourself..
Your GSA gift..you have learned how to LOVE you to the point that you will distance yourself even from your own son because his behavior effects you negatively.
Its a FACT that Some Sons "punish" their mothers after reunion.
They are angry at being Offered up for adoption,
bewildered by the Instant and Sensual LOVE they Feel for their Birth Mother
and confused as to how to create a maternal relationship with a person who is really a "Familiar Stranger"...
In this instance, a HEALED woman would have MOTHERED the boy....
But in actuality a lot of Women remain terribly scarred and wounded by Adoption Separation.
A woman looking to heal would have seen an opportunity to Fast Track the Ocytocin Drenched yearning for intimacy
and Sexualized the relationship.
Unfortunately the SONS dont get what they are really wanting..
A relationship with their Mothers where in they feel Acknowledged and empowered for the Potential MEN that they are.
When a Mother takes her son as a LOVER, she risks damaging him beyond repair.
He can become unable to differentiate between sensual (that which engages the senses) and the Sexual (that which engages the genitals) and consequently sets in place a life long pattern of Demanding SEX from the women in his life.
For such a son, Sex equals sensual gratification
The Sons who face this scenario are often later disgusted by their Mothers,and this disgust and revolution often turns to hateful behavior and a whole lot of disrespect..
For their Mothers and later for the other women who enter their lives.
You Roe, have clearly moved on and are Grateful for the experience of what GSA brought to your life.
Clearly your SON still has a long way to go..
I hope and pray that he finds a Good and Loving Woman who can guide him in his life because we WOMEN are the ones who are in possession of the Most subtle and Potent Force on this Planet.AS Life bearers it is our Duty to Nurture and Care for all who travel the Road of Life!
Cedar is SENIOR to most of us, in age and in his experience with GSA.
He spends hours of his life GIVING time to people who,s hearts are aching through Lack of Love.....He KNOWS so many things that YOU from your one single pointed line of vision are refusing to see...
That you would come here as you have and continually misunderstand where he is coming from shows me that you are in Denial about the events that have taken place between you and your Son...
I usually dont respond so Harshly...
but to be honest I find the
"pontifical "tone of your mails very irritating..
You remind me of a moderator from another forum who clashed with ME when she constantly missed my point..She saw that I was challenging her opinion when I was simple offering an alternate perspective....She did this with Cedar too come to think of it...
Please Roe..
Do as Cedar Asks and Read his mails properly without missing his point and jumping to conclusions....
Thank you