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I am rather sad about the responses I received from you Cedar and you Lostsister. As someone who has spent almost 20 years - since the beginning of my GSA relationship with my son - as someone who has read, researched and dare I say it, even experienced first hand how this affects me, and talked at length to my own son about how this affects him, you continue to preach and blame, which is not what I expected to be honest. It seems to me as though you are locked into a behaviour you have no scientific proof for.
I am asking you to become more open minded about what creates these responses in us, why we have this attraction which is all about sex when you stop the dogma you attach to your own beliefs, and look at this as something that is not a mental illness, or a psychological response. I know without a doubt that for me it is not.
I am really sad that you for some reason have chosen to "react" as strongly as you've done with me - for the second time since I joined this forum - and I wonder just why that is.
Is it because of the things I am sharing about my own experience and beliefs which are different to yours? Or is it that you want me to repent and save myself, because honestly? Your responses seem to be dogmatic religion, good versus evil thinking. You see, I'm not trying to clash with anyone. I am sharing what I have experienced and have experienced for 19 years and three months! My son is nearly 40 years old. Do you believe he wants a Mother when he already has one? The one he grew up with and was mothered by? Honestly?
The last time I posted here, I received the same type of responses from you both. And truly, it reeks of control and blame. You do not have to "save" me. You do not have to "agree" with me, but surely, as an adult, do I really have to conform to your way of thinking in order to be accepted here? Is that what you expect of everyone who comes here? Is this what you are setting out to do within this forum? Tell everyone to have sex is bad, to be a mother/father/brother/sister is only good if sex isn't involved in the equation?
When did the two of you become God?
With love and respect
Roe
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