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No Myshadow, it's who WE are ourselves that create those attitudes. Sex doesn't create an attitude. It's our attitude to it that does. Like a thought.
Sex is only sex. It's HOW we think about it that creates the issues and the attitudes and the pain.
Sex, when given and received in love and of it, is still sex, but it takes on a different meaning if it isn't used to manipulate, control or possess - or use it to keep a relationship going when that relationship is only used for the physical. There are some, if not many, in these relationships who do use it only for the physical and not to build a healthy relationship within it. That's where some of us get lost.
Roe
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