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BarbGonyo · 12-19-2005, 05:15 PM

Dear Buttercup,.

I hear you crying out for relief from your wants and desires but don't know how to give it to you. If it was in my power I would certainly give you the wisdom of Solomon and vanish your pain and make all of it be what you wish.

But is there really any relief for your situation? I don't think so because you are in love and the forbiddeness of this relationship can be very appealing. The distance you have from your sibling makes it even more enticing.

Losing your whole family over this needed feeling of belonging to your birthfamily is not an ideal swap. In time having ones children disown them and have a marriage that may or may not be in its honeymoon stages any longer, die and leave you to do what you want, might seem like a soulution but in the long term it may be the thing that would separate your sibling and you anyway.

Since I don't have the wisdom of Solomon an can only rely on God to guide me, I will call on Him to help you find a happy solution for everyone concerned. If you haven't tried that method, I strongly advise it as it can give you some real wisdom and hopefully some comfort.

I hope you will keep in touch if you feel the need to share your sorrows and successes.

Barb Gonyo

12-19-2005, 05:15 PM	#2
BarbGonyo Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 278	looking for relief Dear Buttercup,. I hear you crying out for relief from your wants and desires but don't know how to give it to you. If it was in my power I would certainly give you the wisdom of Solomon and vanish your pain and make all of it be what you wish. But is there really any relief for your situation? I don't think so because you are in love and the forbiddeness of this relationship can be very appealing. The distance you have from your sibling makes it even more enticing. Losing your whole family over this needed feeling of belonging to your birthfamily is not an ideal swap. In time having ones children disown them and have a marriage that may or may not be in its honeymoon stages any longer, die and leave you to do what you want, might seem like a soulution but in the long term it may be the thing that would separate your sibling and you anyway. Since I don't have the wisdom of Solomon an can only rely on God to guide me, I will call on Him to help you find a happy solution for everyone concerned. If you haven't tried that method, I strongly advise it as it can give you some real wisdom and hopefully some comfort. I hope you will keep in touch if you feel the need to share your sorrows and successes. Barb Gonyo __________________ Barbara is the author of "I'm His Mother,but He's Not My Son" (formerly titled "The Forbidden Love, GSA". In the paper back edition of Forbidden Love, there are a total of 20 books left in that form. "The Forbidden Love Genetic Sexual Attraction is $15.00 plus postage and handling. Postage varies in places. In the U.S. postage comes to $2.31 Austrailia Fast Slower $8.40 one week $4.05- 4 weeks New I'm His Mother, but, He's Not My Son" will now be available electronically for your convience. The price is $15.00 check made out to Barbara Gonyo 906 Ioka Mt. Prospect, IL 60056 Upon receiving the order you will be given instructions on how to obtain the book. I hope this will be helpful to all of you who were having trouble getting the book. Barb Gonyo