other sexual interest

[sixep666]

Interested to hear if any of you are as discusted and completely turned off, when any one, other than your GSA partener, makes a sexual move on you.
The very thought of it repulses us.

[Victor]

Originally Posted by sixep666

Interested to hear if any of you are as discusted and completely turned off, when any one, other than your GSA partener, makes a sexual move on you.
The very thought of it repulses us.

Okay....honest answer. I was the very definition of a sex addict before I met my daughter. After meeting her, falling as deeply in love as I am with her, I haven't felt desire for anyone else since....and I get the sense that this will never change.

She wants to keep her marriage. I have agreed to try to act like a "father" and yet try to remain living close to her. It's torture and pleasure at the same time. I've tried to date, to move on, but I'm just not interested in sex with anyone else, not even in 30 somethings...the same age as my daughter or there abouts.

GSA seems to have killed my own desire for anyone else.

[sislovesbro]

Boy do I know the feeling all too well. I gave in to my sexual urges with my hb over 1 1/2yrs ago. I'm married but feel nauseated by the touch of my husband. I've recently decided (for many, many reasons) I can no longer continue my sexual relationship with my hb as it is breaking my heart. But I can't imagine ever feeling this sexually attracted or fulfilled by anyone else, ever again. I have a rough road of decisions regarding my marriage and life ahead of me. I wonder if this would have been easier if I would have never "ate the forbidden fruit?"

[osiris]

Originally Posted by Victor

Okay....honest answer. I was the very definition of a sex addict before I met my daughter. After meeting her, falling as deeply in love as I am with her, I haven't felt desire for anyone else since....and I get the sense that this will never change.

She wants to keep her marriage. I have agreed to try to act like a "father" and yet try to remain living close to her. It's torture and pleasure at the same time. I've tried to date, to move on, but I'm just not interested in sex with anyone else, not even in 30 somethings...the same age as my daughter or there abouts.

GSA seems to have killed my own desire for anyone else.

Yeah, I'll second that. I was a randy bastard before my sister and I got together, and I'm still a randy bastard, but my desire is now solely for her.

Oh, I'll still look at pretty girls, because I happen to like looking at pretty girls, but I now find that I have no interest in pursuing any of them, whereas before I definitely would have at least thought about it.

Once one has acquired a taste for filet mignon and Krug Grande Cuvée, one finds that cheeseburgers and Bud Lite just don't quite have the same appeal.

[amicrazy]

i diddnt have sex with my hs but we fell in love anyway. when i got home my wife diddnt turn me off but instead i felt like i would betray my hs if i even touched my wife. wich i havent still, and its been over a month now. my wife is asking me what the heck is going on but i just pretend i dont hear her. im freakin i cant say what i really feel. but NO i dont think having sex makes it like that because i feel it too kinda. not repulsed though just betral.

[Victor]

Originally Posted by amicrazy

i diddnt have sex with my hs but we fell in love anyway. when i got home my wife diddnt turn me off but instead i felt like i would betray my hs if i even touched my wife. wich i havent still, and its been over a month now. my wife is asking me what the heck is going on but i just pretend i dont hear her. im freakin i cant say what i really feel. but NO i dont think having sex makes it like that because i feel it too kinda. not repulsed though just betral.

Actually, that's a normal response. My own daughter admits that she feels like she is cheating on ME when she has sex with her husband. It's the bond we have for our GSA partner that causes it. and you don't have to have sex with each other to have this affect happen to you.