Me, my brother, and the dog

[Yoshi_Prower]

Hello, My name is Yoshi Prower. My real name is unimportant. I am a 51 year old gay man who had a homosexual relationship with my half brother since I was young. I also experimented and had sex with my sister a few times and my father would often have sex with me or my sister when my mom didn't put out. My mother have disowned everyone because she found out but we don't care (I still have sex with my dad off and on). Anyway, I love my brother but I feel like he loves me half way. See, we are also zoophiles (into bestiality) and he is in love with our dog. He is starting to treat him better then me and is having sex with him much more often. I love the dog too but I thought my brother was my second lover (I have a life partner already) and would love me and only me but he is breaking my heart. What should I do? ;_;

[osiris]

Well, based on this first post of yours, I would suggest finding a bridge, living under it, and threatening to eat up any traveler that dares to cross it.

You should, of course, beware of billy goats.



...unless of course, you're into billy goats.

[Victor]

Originally Posted by Yoshi_Prower

Hello, My name is Yoshi Prower. My real name is unimportant. I am a 51 year old gay man who had a homosexual relationship with my half brother since I was young. I also experimented and had sex with my sister a few times and my father would often have sex with me or my sister when my mom didn't put out. My mother have disowned everyone because she found out but we don't care (I still have sex with my dad off and on). Anyway, I love my brother but I feel like he loves me half way. See, we are also zoophiles (into bestiality) and he is in love with our dog. He is starting to treat him better then me and is having sex with him much more often. I love the dog too but I thought my brother was my second lover (I have a life partner already) and would love me and only me but he is breaking my heart. What should I do? ;_;

Sounds to me like you are both cheating on each other. Tell him you'll give up your other partner if he'll give up his. Otherwise I think it would be best if the two of you went your separate ways. You both shouldn't be cheating on each other if you both expect to have a good and loving relationship, unless of course you are both consenting to have an open relationship, but it doesn't sound to me that you do if you are jealous of his love for his partner, even if he is a dog.

I used to judge people by their relationships. Then one day I began to realize that it wasn't fair for me to judge who one should love especially if that love was consentually returned. It allowed me to accept first interracial couples back in in the 70s, but not gays and not incest. Then, when I met a wonderful gay couple in the early 90s and became familiar with the closeness they shared as two people in a consentual and loving relationship, my heart was opened to them and I became accepting of gay couples and gay marriages. But I still thought those who committed incest were the lowest of the lowly. Then this year I met my 32 year old daughter, and I suddenly realized the depth of the love and feelings that blood relatives could have for each other if they were separated from birth, and I found that here too I had been wrong about who should be able to love one another, but it took it happening to me or to someone I cared about to learn to accept it and realize the beauty in it.

I don't know if you are for real or if you are just another person like many in the past who came here to try to make their relationship seem so unacceptable as to try to guilt us about our own. Sorry, but in learning this last lesson the hard way.....by it happening not to someone close, but to me personally, I lost my ability to judge anyone for any relationship so long as it was consentual and with someone past puberty (sexually mature). My advise is real and if you follow it I think you will eventually find peace. Happiness, on the other hand comes from within ourselves. Seek you happiness within yourself and not from outside yourself and you will always be happy.