Announcement from Barb Gonyo

BarbGonyo · 12-10-2007, 10:55 AM

With a heavy heart I want to let all of you who have supported me with prayers of healing for my son.

Friday December 7th 2007, he lost his battle with brain cancer that he had been fighting since 2003. He was 55 years old. I found him when he was 26 and had the priviledge of knowing him for 29 years. That is a blessing since many separated by adoption never get to find or know their lost loved ones.

I was not able to be with him when he passed. I arrived at the Hospice Center only to find out he died early in the morning.

His wife has inforned me that there will be a memorial service for him some time in January after the holidays at his Church.

I am grateful for the time we did have together and will continue to think of him and love him as I did from the day of his conception.

His children could use prayers to help them through this loss as they are young teen agers and it is difficult at any age to lose a loving parent.

It is because of him that this website exists to help others. He always supported me in what he felt I needed to do even if he didn't agree with all of my views. The greatest gift he ever gave me was to never send me away.

He will be missed by many. He will now have peace.

Barb G

sandras · 12-10-2007, 01:31 PM

Barb,
My deepesy sympathies.
Sandra

Libralassie · 12-10-2007, 08:41 PM

Barb: My most sincere condolences to you. I have sent you an e-mail
privately.

Libralassie.

liltimetothink · 12-10-2007, 09:04 PM

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Red · Yesterday, 01:44 AM

Barb,

Our prayers go out to you at this difficult time xx

osiris · Yesterday, 04:07 AM

Barb:

Every day that we have with the ones we love is a blessing that we should never take for granted.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

theswan · Yesterday, 04:44 AM

I have only just joined this site having been watching for many years. I was very sorry to hear about your sad loss and I wish you and your son's family the strength to deal with their immense grief. For you it is of course a feeling of double loss, of the past and now the future. I have experienced this when my half-sister died two years ago, we had only known each other 3years. I asked for your advice several years ago and read your book, before I found myself uncontrollably drawn into my gsa relationship, and I hope I thanked you at that time for your help. This site has continued to be a source of great comfort to me and all who have been caught up in the turmoil of their seemingly 'unnatural' feelings for a relative. Take care Barbara.

Danielle Heaney · Yesterday, 04:52 AM

Hi Barb,

just a quick post to tell you how sorry i am for you loss. You will be in my thoughts.
Danielle

sixep666 · Today, 08:46 AM

Dear Barb,
So sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you and your sons family.
Sixep A & J.

12-10-2007, 10:55 AM	#1
BarbGonyo Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 300	Announcement from Barb Gonyo With a heavy heart I want to let all of you who have supported me with prayers of healing for my son. Friday December 7th 2007, he lost his battle with brain cancer that he had been fighting since 2003. He was 55 years old. I found him when he was 26 and had the priviledge of knowing him for 29 years. That is a blessing since many separated by adoption never get to find or know their lost loved ones. I was not able to be with him when he passed. I arrived at the Hospice Center only to find out he died early in the morning. His wife has inforned me that there will be a memorial service for him some time in January after the holidays at his Church. I am grateful for the time we did have together and will continue to think of him and love him as I did from the day of his conception. His children could use prayers to help them through this loss as they are young teen agers and it is difficult at any age to lose a loving parent. It is because of him that this website exists to help others. He always supported me in what he felt I needed to do even if he didn't agree with all of my views. The greatest gift he ever gave me was to never send me away. He will be missed by many. He will now have peace. Barb G __________________ Barbara is the author of "I'm His Mother,but He's Not My Son" (formerly titled "The Forbidden Love, GSA". In the paper back edition of Forbidden Love, there are a total of 20 books left in that form. "The Forbidden Love Genetic Sexual Attraction is $15.00 plus postage and handling. Postage varies in places. In the U.S. postage comes to $2.31 Austrailia Fast Slower $8.40 one week $4.05- 4 weeks New I'm His Mother, but, He's Not My Son" will now be available electronically for your convience. The price is $15.00 check made out to Barbara Gonyo 906 Ioka Mt. Prospect, IL 60056 Upon receiving the order you will be given instructions on how to obtain the book. I hope this will be helpful to all of you who were having trouble getting the book. Barb Gonyo

12-10-2007, 08:41 PM	#3
Libralassie Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 10	This is a devastating loss Barb: My most sincere condolences to you. I have sent you an e-mail privately. Libralassie.

Yesterday, 04:07 AM	#6
osiris Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 30	Barb: Every day that we have with the ones we love is a blessing that we should never take for granted. I'm so sorry for your loss. __________________ "Osiris had been torn to pieces, but Isis his sister and lover crossed the ocean, put him back together, and brought him back to life."

Yesterday, 04:44 AM	#7
theswan Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: UK Posts: 1	message for Barbara I have only just joined this site having been watching for many years. I was very sorry to hear about your sad loss and I wish you and your son's family the strength to deal with their immense grief. For you it is of course a feeling of double loss, of the past and now the future. I have experienced this when my half-sister died two years ago, we had only known each other 3years. I asked for your advice several years ago and read your book, before I found myself uncontrollably drawn into my gsa relationship, and I hope I thanked you at that time for your help. This site has continued to be a source of great comfort to me and all who have been caught up in the turmoil of their seemingly 'unnatural' feelings for a relative. Take care Barbara.

Yesterday, 04:52 AM	#8
Danielle Heaney Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: scotland Posts: 23	im sorry Hi Barb, just a quick post to tell you how sorry i am for you loss. You will be in my thoughts. Danielle __________________ WE WILL MAKE IT

12-10-2007, 01:31 PM	#2
sandras Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Pretoria, South Africa Posts: 5	Barb, My deepesy sympathies. Sandra

12-10-2007, 09:04 PM	#4
liltimetothink Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 14	I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Yesterday, 01:44 AM	#5
Red Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: England Posts: 41	Barb, Our prayers go out to you at this difficult time xx

Today, 08:46 AM	#9
sixep666 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: England Posts: 14	so sorry Dear Barb, So sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you and your sons family. Sixep A & J.

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