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Old 11-13-2008, 09:49 PM   #1
TehPiggeh
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I am worried...

Hello everyone,

As I related in my first post, my brother and I are in an incestuous relationship. He is the most beautiful thing in the world. We are Russian and we are currently living with a relative in Moscow.

At any rate, I am having numerous problems at the moment. While my brother and I have always been attracted to each other and have only had a real sexual relationship for about 4 years, we have also always agreed to have an open relationship, another point which our parents highly disapproved of. However, my brother was always more promiscuous than I was. I am urging him to go to a doctor to get tested for diseases. He refuses. I am so afraid that he will contract something and that it will eventually kill him. While we agreed to an open relationship, we never mean for the relationships with other people to last or even to really mean anything other than for our pleasure. But it scares me because my brother is not paying as much attention to me as he once did.

Also, our parents disapproved of many things. That is why they basically threw us out and now we are living with a relative. They shunned us because we are in an open, incestuous, homosexual relationship. Our parents are wealthy and have friends in very low, as well as high places. I looked out my window last night and saw people trying to look into it. Whenever I or my brother go places, I know that someone is following and watching us. I have gotten nasty and frightening letters and e-mails. Our cat was killed and the house that we are living in has been vandalised with graffiti and homophobic terms like "faggot." This has urged me to use a different IP address (which someone suggested to me on a different site), close some online accounts, and basically stay in the house all the time.

What do I do? How do I get my brother to love me? How can I convince him to get tested? Are there any stories or advice that anyone could possibly offer me? What do I do about my stalkers? I have prayed to Goddess about this so many times. I am so unsure of what to do.

Please help,

Dana
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Old 11-18-2008, 07:39 AM   #2
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You and your brother should move far away so you can both be happy in each others company without hate from people in your area. I had some problems with people harassing me too and the police never really did anything they just stopped after a while. But if you're scared then I really think you should leave.

AND if your brother loves you like I think he does; he should WANT to get tested for both of your safety! Let him know that! Good luck
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Old 11-19-2008, 02:31 PM   #3
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You and your brother should move far away so you can both be happy in each others company without hate from people in your area. I had some problems with people harassing me too and the police never really did anything they just stopped after a while. But if you're scared then I really think you should leave.

AND if your brother loves you like I think he does; he should WANT to get tested for both of your safety! Let him know that! Good luck
Everything is taken care of (it seems). We are moving in with another relative who is even farther away. That will keep our parents away from us for some time. Yay, my brother has agreed to testing. I will be tested too! I don't think I have anything though; my brother got an infection last week, so... I guess we will see how everything turns out.
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Old 11-19-2008, 03:50 PM   #4
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Everything is taken care of (it seems). We are moving in with another relative who is even farther away. That will keep our parents away from us for some time. Yay, my brother has agreed to testing. I will be tested too! I don't think I have anything though; my brother got an infection last week, so... I guess we will see how everything turns out.
I hope things work out for you and your brother! I'm so glad he's being tested!
I'm sure everything will be fine!
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Old 11-19-2008, 03:56 PM   #5
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I hope things work out for you and your brother! I'm so glad he's being tested!
I'm sure everything will be fine!
Thank you Cherry <3. I am happy someone helped!
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Old 11-19-2008, 04:11 PM   #6
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Thank you Cherry <3. I am happy someone helped!
LOL, you're the one who helped yourself, silly!
All you had to do was rise above those terrible people and realize you DON'T have to put up with their crap anymore! [excuse my language]

I'm so happy for you
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