I Am My Father's Daughter

[Zenith]

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[Zenith]

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[Victor]

My own daughter could have written that same story, well, almost. She never knew my side of the family....until last year. But the situation...being taken from your mom at an early age and living with your maternal grandparents, the feelings you describe, everything, right down to the part where you had to tell your husband of your feelings for your dad and his for you, why it's just too uncanny.

You can live a normal life....it will take time. What you are going thru is a sort of bonding process for adults. Eventually the intensity of that process will subside a little and you will be able to morph your relationship with your dad into an almost normal father-daughter relationship. You and he will probably slip on rare occasions back into sexual intimacy and then out again. But overall you will become his daughter and he your dad in good time. The problem is that this takes a long time to evolve it into what it should be. Don't feel discouraged or guilty for your short failings. They are normal. We are all human and imperfect and weak willed.

I'm here if you need someone who knows what you are going thru to talk to.

Vic

[Zenith]

Thank you Vic for your comments. There are not many people in the world who can relate to what my father and I are going through. It is so bizarre and taboo that it goes beyond the scope of what most people would be comfortable talking about. I am trying to keep calm and level headed, but inside I am screaming. This experience is so unbelievable, that I don't really know how to deal with all these emotions. It about rips my heart apart every time I have to say goodbye to my Dad. We shake, sweat, cry, feel sick and he has even thrown up just because we have to say goodbye for a while. How long does it usually take to get something like this under control? Right now, I don't see a way out. I can barely tread water at this point.

[Victor]

Originally Posted by Zenith

Thank you Vic for your comments. There are not many people in the world who can relate to what my father and I are going through. It is so bizarre and taboo that it goes beyond the scope of what most people would be comfortable talking about. I am trying to keep calm and level headed, but inside I am screaming. This experience is so unbelievable, that I don't really know how to deal with all these emotions. It about rips my heart apart every time I have to say goodbye to my Dad. We shake, sweat, cry, feel sick and he has even thrown up just because we have to say goodbye for a while. How long does it usually take to get something like this under control? Right now, I don't see a way out. I can barely tread water at this point.

I'm only two months ahead of you in my situation. I'll let you know when I can see the light ahead :-)

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