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Angry
I find it infuriating that you expect people to be tolerant of your sexual preferences and "taboos" but are absolutely not tolerent of others yourself.
How does that make you any better than someone who thinks your sexual preferences are sick and preverted? Pedophille's do not equal child molestors. Many people, everyday people struggle with attraction to children, even their own children. It is a private hell that you know nothing about, how dare you condemn us! Child molestors are almost entirely people who are situational sex offenders. They don't care its a child, they don't respect the child; ithe child is there and they care only about their pathetic little genitalia. They are often rapists. A child molestor is as likely to attack an elderly person. It is about power and control, and being a weak, mentally ill person. Of course I say molestor in the sense of a forced sexual act upon a child. They are rapists. Not pedophiles. sure, its possible to be a pedophile and also be a mentally ill person that needs to overpower and assault weaker beings to make themselves feel good. But they are NOT THE SAME THING. They are seperate! Some people are so attracted to children they make a mistake and enter what is at the time a loving, mutal relationship. This is only a mistake because of how society views these relationships. It is illegal. The child most likely will grow up in confusion and guilt about the relationship, and in the end this hurts the child. that is why it is wrong. Because society does not accept it. But the fact that you so violently reacted to someones THOUGHTS is just horrifying. You should really take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why you need to react that way. Think it through. Peophiles LOVE children. They don't want to hurt them. And I should know. |
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: ohio
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Violet
You are in the wrong place for whatever it is that you are interested in,,this place is for people who have issues with consentual relationship that involve people who are related..not paedohileor child love. luvsbubby |
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Very sickening if someone is attracted to a child.. Im sorry that is way overboard and they need to be locked away :x I surely hope that there are not any sick perverts on the board.. |
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Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 55
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I've been observing, lately, and not involving myself very much, mainly because my views on the ethics of acting on GSA seem to upset some members. But THIS, I had to address.
At least, unwise though I may consider acting on GSA to be, it is between consenting ADULTS. If a pedophile is trying to persuade themselves that desiring sex with an innocent and malleable minor and feeding that desire with child porn is OK, then they are sicker than the sickest. GSA, which I have experienced, is the result of long and unnatural separations between closely related kin and is a "syndrome or pheonmenon" rather than a pathological disease. Research is being done and it is being recognized, more and more, for just what it is. Pedophilia is a disease, in that it has a definite and provable pathology. It is a sexual fixation on the undeveloped bodies of children. It is dangerous and damaging in that those who act on this are doing unimaginable damage to a TRUE VICTIM...a child. Bouncing around the Internet and finding a forum dealing with GSA and hoping to find kindred spirits there is nothing more than indulging your disease. I remember watching an old Phil Donahue show where a member of the, so-called, "Man-Boy Love" 'organization' and other pedophiles were trying to tout the rights of its members to exploit the bodies of children for their own sexual gratification. One really execrable man gave out their specious motto, "Sex before 8 or else it's too late." WHAT DRIVEL..they claimed the children were "pleasured" by their molestations. I wanted to jump through that TV screen and tell that piece of pustulant flesh that I was molested as a child and there was NOTHING of anything remotely resembling "pleasure" in it. There was just fear and pain and unearned guilt. So if you feel you need to justify the feelings you have of desire for a child, go to a psychiatrist. Don't try to push the pedophile's agenda here on a list where people are struggling enough as it is. Whatever my opinion of acting on GSA might be, this group is about adults in complex relationships with other adults. The (DEFINITELY HARMFUL) sexual exploitation of children is not a subject that belongs here. |
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