My half-sister - Page 2

Allenbird · 10-04-2011, 11:15 AM

Thank you. It feels like that the only thing that makes me feel better though is hearing from her. Even the most mundane comments or trivial texts are like energy boosters that kick start my heart and make me feel normal again. Like the smallest thing she does in just staying in contact keeps my heart from hurting so bad.
She has been going through alot of physical issues to where she has been medicated and she sleeps alot so that has probably prevented her from having to feel anything. I can't really talk about these things with her though since we are like 2 hours away and email and text are not to be trusted.
When we have been face to face though and we look in eachother's eyes it's a whole other world.

Red.String.of.Fate · 10-05-2011, 05:27 AM

I say enjoy getting to know her.
I know everything in you just dictated to get as close as possible but that is a part of GSA.

There is no rush.
Nobody will come after you with a knife, or fretten to separate you again.
Get to know her. Feed your hunger with information.
Ask what books she reads, or what movies she likes then read/watch them all.
Listen to all of her favourite songs, check out her favourite pictures or take an interest in whatever hobby she has.

You will already feel a connection after doing all this, and talking about them will give you a connection already.

There is no need to rush to the sexual aspect, there is so much to learn first!
And trust me, no person dislikes being asked to talk about themselves.
Visit childhood places together.
Where each of you went to school, where you hanged out with friends.

This is the good part. Getting to know each other.
Enjoy it for now, do not try to put it in a frame before it has time to dry.
There is nothing to be ashamed of in getting to know the other person.
The physical part can wait.

Talk about everything and nothing. It is one of the biggest highs and you should enjoy it. Do not move to another level, until you fully enjoyed this one.
You will not regret becoming friends before anything else.

Allenbird · 10-05-2011, 06:19 AM

Thank you red string. That is some really great advice.

10-05-2011, 05:27 AM	#12
Red.String.of.Fate Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: europe Posts: 278	I say enjoy getting to know her. I know everything in you just dictated to get as close as possible but that is a part of GSA. There is no rush. Nobody will come after you with a knife, or fretten to separate you again. Get to know her. Feed your hunger with information. Ask what books she reads, or what movies she likes then read/watch them all. Listen to all of her favourite songs, check out her favourite pictures or take an interest in whatever hobby she has. You will already feel a connection after doing all this, and talking about them will give you a connection already. There is no need to rush to the sexual aspect, there is so much to learn first! And trust me, no person dislikes being asked to talk about themselves. Visit childhood places together. Where each of you went to school, where you hanged out with friends. This is the good part. Getting to know each other. Enjoy it for now, do not try to put it in a frame before it has time to dry. There is nothing to be ashamed of in getting to know the other person. The physical part can wait. Talk about everything and nothing. It is one of the biggest highs and you should enjoy it. Do not move to another level, until you fully enjoyed this one. You will not regret becoming friends before anything else. __________________ "We fight for that which we can not compromise"

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10-04-2011, 11:15 AM	#11
Allenbird Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: North Carolina Posts: 15	Thank you. It feels like that the only thing that makes me feel better though is hearing from her. Even the most mundane comments or trivial texts are like energy boosters that kick start my heart and make me feel normal again. Like the smallest thing she does in just staying in contact keeps my heart from hurting so bad. She has been going through alot of physical issues to where she has been medicated and she sleeps alot so that has probably prevented her from having to feel anything. I can't really talk about these things with her though since we are like 2 hours away and email and text are not to be trusted. When we have been face to face though and we look in eachother's eyes it's a whole other world.

10-05-2011, 06:19 AM	#13
Allenbird Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: North Carolina Posts: 15	Thank you red string. That is some really great advice.