My Story with Cousin

knoxtn11 · 08-29-2007, 08:53 AM

Wow it is great to hear people with similiar stories to mine. I had not seen my cousin for years and then we saw each other at a family reunion. I was instantly attacted to her and thought about her lots after we left the reunion. I never acted on it. Then after several years we saw each other again at a 50th wedding anniversary and I was again instantly attracted and with strong sexual feelings for her. We talked and flirted and I thought she may be attracted too but we never brought it up. After the reunion we talked and slowly I brought up what I was thinking and feeling and she actually felt the same way. We flirted and chatted on the phone and teased. She is married with a child and I am single. I want so bad to act on these feelings and she does also but she is the strong one since she is married. HELP. I so want to act on the feelings but not sure what will happen if I do. Thank you all for sharing!

knoxtn11 · 09-24-2007, 09:31 AM

I talked to my cousin and let her know about this site and how I felt. We are beginning to be able to talk about our attraction easier but I am not sure it is helping. She is married and happy and I just feel like I am causing trouble at times so I have tried to not let me feelings for her affect anything. That is very difficult. Everyones thoughts on here has helped tremendously. I still think about her daily and think about us kissing and touching and much more but I am trying to control those urges. It helps that we live in different states for sure but it is still hard not to imagine what it would be like to slowly kiss and touch and hold her close to me. Thanks again for everyones feedback.

BarbGonyo · 09-26-2007, 12:17 PM

I would like to make a plead to all who use this site to please be careful with your language. It is not necessary and too many it is offensive.

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knoxtn11 · 10-07-2007, 08:50 AM

Well I have continued to talk to my cousin and it appears we are not going to act on our feelings. We have been totally and brutally honest. She has a husband and a child and doesnt want to mess that up. She let me know that if she was single we would be together. I am torn. I respect what she wants and will not do anything to put her relationship in jepordy but how do I just turn my feelings and wants off? I will working on that. Since she let me know how she felt and with some detail I have felt almost relieved. I am just glad to know she feels like I do. I do still fantasize and imagine me kissing her oulling her close and us sharing our passion physically one day. It may never happen but I do love to think about the possibility.

08-29-2007, 08:53 AM	#1
knoxtn11 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Knoxville TN Posts: 5	My Story with Cousin Wow it is great to hear people with similiar stories to mine. I had not seen my cousin for years and then we saw each other at a family reunion. I was instantly attacted to her and thought about her lots after we left the reunion. I never acted on it. Then after several years we saw each other again at a 50th wedding anniversary and I was again instantly attracted and with strong sexual feelings for her. We talked and flirted and I thought she may be attracted too but we never brought it up. After the reunion we talked and slowly I brought up what I was thinking and feeling and she actually felt the same way. We flirted and chatted on the phone and teased. She is married with a child and I am single. I want so bad to act on these feelings and she does also but she is the strong one since she is married. HELP. I so want to act on the feelings but not sure what will happen if I do. Thank you all for sharing!

09-24-2007, 09:31 AM	#2
knoxtn11 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Knoxville TN Posts: 5	More on me and cuz I talked to my cousin and let her know about this site and how I felt. We are beginning to be able to talk about our attraction easier but I am not sure it is helping. She is married and happy and I just feel like I am causing trouble at times so I have tried to not let me feelings for her affect anything. That is very difficult. Everyones thoughts on here has helped tremendously. I still think about her daily and think about us kissing and touching and much more but I am trying to control those urges. It helps that we live in different states for sure but it is still hard not to imagine what it would be like to slowly kiss and touch and hold her close to me. Thanks again for everyones feedback.

09-26-2007, 12:17 PM	#3
BarbGonyo Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 301	I would like to make a plead to all who use this site to please be careful with your language. It is not necessary and too many it is offensive. Thank you, Barb Gonyo __________________ Barbara is the author of "I'm His Mother,but He's Not My Son" (formerly titled "The Forbidden Love, GSA". In the paper back edition of Forbidden Love, there are a total of 20 books left in that form. "The Forbidden Love Genetic Sexual Attraction is $15.00 plus postage and handling. Postage varies in places. In the U.S. postage comes to $2.31 Austrailia Fast Slower $8.40 one week $4.05- 4 weeks New I'm His Mother, but, He's Not My Son" will now be available electronically for your convience. The price is $15.00 check made out to Barbara Gonyo 906 Ioka Mt. Prospect, IL 60056 Upon receiving the order you will be given instructions on how to obtain the book. I hope this will be helpful to all of you who were having trouble getting the book. Barb Gonyo

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10-07-2007, 08:50 AM	#4
knoxtn11 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Knoxville TN Posts: 5	Well I have continued to talk to my cousin and it appears we are not going to act on our feelings. We have been totally and brutally honest. She has a husband and a child and doesnt want to mess that up. She let me know that if she was single we would be together. I am torn. I respect what she wants and will not do anything to put her relationship in jepordy but how do I just turn my feelings and wants off? I will working on that. Since she let me know how she felt and with some detail I have felt almost relieved. I am just glad to know she feels like I do. I do still fantasize and imagine me kissing her oulling her close and us sharing our passion physically one day. It may never happen but I do love to think about the possibility.