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811Brother · 10-14-2007, 11:49 PM

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lostsister · 10-15-2007, 08:50 AM

Hi there, Welcome to the Forum,

Whew...tough tough situation....
The easiest Part is how to explain to your wife that you no longer want to play..
Just tell her that exactly..
You did it, for a while and now you are over it...!
And as For your Sister..
This is a love like no other, and nothing , nothing will ever compare to it.......
So..yeah I would say your playing days are over...

Your Sister and you have found each other, and in Your situation, well there seems to be a darker side, and Im not even sure you really Qualify for REAL GSA..(Sorry) You said you never spent "much" time together ?
Typically GSA starts when you have not known each other at all, and the Normal Bonding that occurs between siblings was disallowed....

hmmm.....

Heavenly Torture..Weclome to the oxymoron coined especially for GSA....
Please read every post you can on this forum , you will find a lot of help...

BarbGonyo · 10-15-2007, 11:27 AM

I usually try to welcome people to the site who are being troubled by GSA but I'm not sure you are in the GSA category.

It always disturbs me when a person needs to be graffic about their sexual exploits. You have adjmitted to having a problem with sexual addiction which makes me think that no matter if it was a new acquaintance or a relative there would be no boundaries for your sexual needs.

GSA is a much different issue. It has to do with loss and rejection. I'm afraid you have totally differnt issues. I was tempted to delete some of your post but left it hoping others will see the difference.

You may want to find a different site for your addiction as GSA will probably not be your category but if you continue to post here, please leave out the details.
Thank you,.
Barb G

Victor · 10-16-2007, 08:20 AM

Careful....one can have a sex addiction AND be in a GSA situation. What we need to look at is if there was a possibility that there was a sufficient enough of an "absence" in this person's life from his/her siblings to retard or prevent the "westermarck effect" from happening. That is the real determinant factor.

BarbGonyo · 10-16-2007, 10:24 AM

To Victor
I know there is a fine line between a lot of situations and we are not to judge, but it is also hard to let every type of situation that has to due with sex on this site as it gets out of control. There are so many people who want to get in to all or any site to shock and give themselves satisfaction that they are gaining attention.

I'm not always able to tell the difference but keeping this site open is hard enough so I must try to limit what I feel is the subject we are here to discuss. If I'm being judgemental, I apologize but I do feel that some who think every sexual feeling they have ever had would be subject to GSA. Those who may be victims of sexual addiction may or may not have GSA also but I know there are places that take care of addictions where there may find more answers than they could on a GSA site.

Thanks for your comments.
Barb

10-14-2007, 11:49 PM	#1
811Brother Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1	Room 811 12345678900 Last edited by 811Brother : 10-16-2007 at 09:56 AM. Reason: This site is not for me.

10-15-2007, 08:50 AM	#2
lostsister Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 53	811Brother Hi there, Welcome to the Forum, Whew...tough tough situation.... The easiest Part is how to explain to your wife that you no longer want to play.. Just tell her that exactly.. You did it, for a while and now you are over it...! And as For your Sister.. This is a love like no other, and nothing , nothing will ever compare to it....... So..yeah I would say your playing days are over... Your Sister and you have found each other, and in Your situation, well there seems to be a darker side, and Im not even sure you really Qualify for REAL GSA..(Sorry) You said you never spent "much" time together ? Typically GSA starts when you have not known each other at all, and the Normal Bonding that occurs between siblings was disallowed.... hmmm..... Heavenly Torture..Weclome to the oxymoron coined especially for GSA.... Please read every post you can on this forum , you will find a lot of help... __________________ "Pain bonds us closer together than Joy ever Can"

10-15-2007, 11:27 AM	#3
BarbGonyo Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 301	811 brother I usually try to welcome people to the site who are being troubled by GSA but I'm not sure you are in the GSA category. It always disturbs me when a person needs to be graffic about their sexual exploits. You have adjmitted to having a problem with sexual addiction which makes me think that no matter if it was a new acquaintance or a relative there would be no boundaries for your sexual needs. GSA is a much different issue. It has to do with loss and rejection. I'm afraid you have totally differnt issues. I was tempted to delete some of your post but left it hoping others will see the difference. You may want to find a different site for your addiction as GSA will probably not be your category but if you continue to post here, please leave out the details. Thank you,. Barb G __________________ Barbara is the author of "I'm His Mother,but He's Not My Son" (formerly titled "The Forbidden Love, GSA". In the paper back edition of Forbidden Love, there are a total of 20 books left in that form. "The Forbidden Love Genetic Sexual Attraction is $15.00 plus postage and handling. Postage varies in places. In the U.S. postage comes to $2.31 Austrailia Fast Slower $8.40 one week $4.05- 4 weeks New I'm His Mother, but, He's Not My Son" will now be available electronically for your convience. The price is $15.00 check made out to Barbara Gonyo 906 Ioka Mt. Prospect, IL 60056 Upon receiving the order you will be given instructions on how to obtain the book. I hope this will be helpful to all of you who were having trouble getting the book. Barb Gonyo

10-16-2007, 10:24 AM	#5
BarbGonyo Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 301	appropriate or not To Victor I know there is a fine line between a lot of situations and we are not to judge, but it is also hard to let every type of situation that has to due with sex on this site as it gets out of control. There are so many people who want to get in to all or any site to shock and give themselves satisfaction that they are gaining attention. I'm not always able to tell the difference but keeping this site open is hard enough so I must try to limit what I feel is the subject we are here to discuss. If I'm being judgemental, I apologize but I do feel that some who think every sexual feeling they have ever had would be subject to GSA. Those who may be victims of sexual addiction may or may not have GSA also but I know there are places that take care of addictions where there may find more answers than they could on a GSA site. Thanks for your comments. Barb __________________ Barbara is the author of "I'm His Mother,but He's Not My Son" (formerly titled "The Forbidden Love, GSA". In the paper back edition of Forbidden Love, there are a total of 20 books left in that form. "The Forbidden Love Genetic Sexual Attraction is $15.00 plus postage and handling. Postage varies in places. In the U.S. postage comes to $2.31 Austrailia Fast Slower $8.40 one week $4.05- 4 weeks New I'm His Mother, but, He's Not My Son" will now be available electronically for your convience. The price is $15.00 check made out to Barbara Gonyo 906 Ioka Mt. Prospect, IL 60056 Upon receiving the order you will be given instructions on how to obtain the book. I hope this will be helpful to all of you who were having trouble getting the book. Barb Gonyo

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10-16-2007, 08:20 AM	#4
Victor Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 178	Careful....one can have a sex addiction AND be in a GSA situation. What we need to look at is if there was a possibility that there was a sufficient enough of an "absence" in this person's life from his/her siblings to retard or prevent the "westermarck effect" from happening. That is the real determinant factor.