Do you wish to tell?

sixep666 · 01-17-2008, 01:33 AM

Does any one sometimes wish that they could show this site to there parteners or spouse's, or even work collegues? In the hope that they would understand. It is such a comfort to belong to, and have the opportunity to share our secrets with people who completely understand.This cruel world we live in, would surely have its eyes wide open if we could display every emotion that has been written on this site, and i for one, feel proud to belong to it.

Zenith · 01-17-2008, 09:35 AM

I have told my husband to look at this site, so he can see there are others who have experienced this kind of attraction. It is hard to explain to anyone in words what we experience. I have confided in a friend, but I can tell already that it was a mistake. It is so hard to live like this knowing, unless I leave everyone and everyone behind, and run away with my father...that our incredible love will be a secret. I don't know how long I can live this double life.

Zenith · 01-18-2008, 12:18 PM

Complications

Martin1932 · 01-22-2008, 01:03 AM

My sister and I were genetially attracted for our entire lifetime, but because of conventions in the 1960's we did nothing to make the relation permanent. I married a nice girl and we had a son and daughter, but now I am widowed. Before our marriage I told my future wife of the love for my sister and luckily for me and sis, she accepted that through out the life of our marriage.

My sister was not so lucky with men in her first two marriages, but now is happily married. Had we known about GSA 40+ years ago things would have been different and the child sis and I had together when she was a junior in college could have been raised by us as her natural parents.

Now that I am widowed, Sis and I would love to reunite, but she will not leave a workable marriage. The attraction is still there, but we must limit the sex to discreet meetings that the rest of the family does not know about.

Bianca · 01-22-2008, 01:29 AM

I wish I could tell someone even my h/b how strong I have these feelings for him. I know he feels the strong attraction between us but all the time I am wondering what he is thinking if he really feels the same towards me Sometimes I cant handle how much I think about him its everyday most of the day and I long to have him close to me and just be able to touch him
I want to be with him always

sixep666 · 01-22-2008, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Bianca

I wish I could tell someone even my h/b how strong I have these feelings for him. I know he feels the strong attraction between us but all the time I am wondering what he is thinking if he really feels the same towards me Sometimes I cant handle how much I think about him its everyday most of the day and I long to have him close to me and just be able to touch him
I want to be with him always

Hi Bianca,
If it was me in your position, i would maybe ask him why he appears to be avoiding you, then this could open up any possible conversation about how he feels about you. Take care .

Bianca · 01-22-2008, 03:32 AM

Hi sixep666
thanks for your reply My h/b doesnt avoid me I know he feels the strong connection that we both can not deny we just have not spoke about how far we could / would like to go
I would like to talk to him about this site because it answers alot of reasons like why we feel very strongly towards each other and why I feel like this but I dont want to scare him away he is coming to live here soon.
We have a magnetic energy together and we always hug and touch each other safely but sometimes I want so much more
I dont know how to stop wanting that I miss him its like I dont who I am unless hes with me because I was the one who was adopted out I was left and he was the one who found me.
I never want to lose him in any way he means the world to me
but curiosity killed the cat so to speak
I dont want to feel like Im alone I really want to know exactly how he feels towards me even if I dont take it further I just dont want to be the only one
except for everyone else on this site which is fantastic by the way!!

DAD48 · 02-13-2008, 10:17 AM

i hope my daughter decides to go with me.

DAD48 · 02-13-2008, 10:30 AM

i really need to show my daughter this site,its great

DAD48 · 02-13-2008, 10:42 AM

me and my ex wife divorced and my wife moved away for a year with another man,yes me and my daughter were seperated from her age 5-15 i didn't see her for 10 years then we starting talking when she was 15 i would go to where she was working,her mom did not approve since she had been adopted by my ex wifes husband after i didn't see her for that first year,still don't know how they done that without my permission but anywaysfrom 15 to 18 my daughter would stop by and see me now and then,when she turned 18 her and her friend moved in with me for the summer,my daughter would make advances toward me(flirt) we were pretty open about talking about sex,my daughters friend actually told me that my daughter loved talking to me about sex and being so open with me,nothing ever did come of me and her having sex although we did have cyber sex a fewtimes,so after summer was overmy daughter joined the service and i would only see her on leaves about once a year anyways my daughter is 24 now and has a daughter that is 4 years old which the dad of her child is not in the picture at all,everytime i see or talk to my daughter i get so tingly all over and i can't stop thinking about her,i think about being with her in everyway she is so beautiful and i'd do anything in this world for her,i have never felt so strong of love for her, i never felt this strong of love for her mom even, is this gsa maybe or am i going crazy? i can't get her out of my mind, 48 swm and my daughter is 24yo swf. thanks and hope to hear from you so and its ok to ask me anything as i am a very openminded person.

01-17-2008, 01:33 AM	#1
sixep666 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: England Posts: 15	Do you wish to tell? Does any one sometimes wish that they could show this site to there parteners or spouse's, or even work collegues? In the hope that they would understand. It is such a comfort to belong to, and have the opportunity to share our secrets with people who completely understand.This cruel world we live in, would surely have its eyes wide open if we could display every emotion that has been written on this site, and i for one, feel proud to belong to it.

01-18-2008, 12:18 PM	#3
Zenith Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 39	Complications Last edited by Zenith : 02-03-2008 at 07:04 PM.

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01-17-2008, 09:35 AM	#2
Zenith Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 39	I have told my husband to look at this site, so he can see there are others who have experienced this kind of attraction. It is hard to explain to anyone in words what we experience. I have confided in a friend, but I can tell already that it was a mistake. It is so hard to live like this knowing, unless I leave everyone and everyone behind, and run away with my father...that our incredible love will be a secret. I don't know how long I can live this double life.

01-22-2008, 01:03 AM	#4
Martin1932 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Mexico, USA Posts: 29	My sister and I were genetially attracted for our entire lifetime, but because of conventions in the 1960's we did nothing to make the relation permanent. I married a nice girl and we had a son and daughter, but now I am widowed. Before our marriage I told my future wife of the love for my sister and luckily for me and sis, she accepted that through out the life of our marriage. My sister was not so lucky with men in her first two marriages, but now is happily married. Had we known about GSA 40+ years ago things would have been different and the child sis and I had together when she was a junior in college could have been raised by us as her natural parents. Now that I am widowed, Sis and I would love to reunite, but she will not leave a workable marriage. The attraction is still there, but we must limit the sex to discreet meetings that the rest of the family does not know about.

01-22-2008, 01:29 AM	#5
Bianca Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 4	I wish I could tell someone even my h/b how strong I have these feelings for him. I know he feels the strong attraction between us but all the time I am wondering what he is thinking if he really feels the same towards me Sometimes I cant handle how much I think about him its everyday most of the day and I long to have him close to me and just be able to touch him I want to be with him always

01-22-2008, 03:32 AM	#7
Bianca Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 4	Hi sixep666 thanks for your reply My h/b doesnt avoid me I know he feels the strong connection that we both can not deny we just have not spoke about how far we could / would like to go I would like to talk to him about this site because it answers alot of reasons like why we feel very strongly towards each other and why I feel like this but I dont want to scare him away he is coming to live here soon. We have a magnetic energy together and we always hug and touch each other safely but sometimes I want so much more I dont know how to stop wanting that I miss him its like I dont who I am unless hes with me because I was the one who was adopted out I was left and he was the one who found me. I never want to lose him in any way he means the world to me but curiosity killed the cat so to speak I dont want to feel like Im alone I really want to know exactly how he feels towards me even if I dont take it further I just dont want to be the only one except for everyone else on this site which is fantastic by the way!!

02-13-2008, 10:17 AM	#8
DAD48 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: in. Posts: 7	i hope my daughter decides to go with me.

02-13-2008, 10:30 AM	#9
DAD48 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: in. Posts: 7	i really need to show my daughter this site,its great

02-13-2008, 10:42 AM	#10
DAD48 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: in. Posts: 7	me and my ex wife divorced and my wife moved away for a year with another man,yes me and my daughter were seperated from her age 5-15 i didn't see her for 10 years then we starting talking when she was 15 i would go to where she was working,her mom did not approve since she had been adopted by my ex wifes husband after i didn't see her for that first year,still don't know how they done that without my permission but anywaysfrom 15 to 18 my daughter would stop by and see me now and then,when she turned 18 her and her friend moved in with me for the summer,my daughter would make advances toward me(flirt) we were pretty open about talking about sex,my daughters friend actually told me that my daughter loved talking to me about sex and being so open with me,nothing ever did come of me and her having sex although we did have cyber sex a fewtimes,so after summer was overmy daughter joined the service and i would only see her on leaves about once a year anyways my daughter is 24 now and has a daughter that is 4 years old which the dad of her child is not in the picture at all,everytime i see or talk to my daughter i get so tingly all over and i can't stop thinking about her,i think about being with her in everyway she is so beautiful and i'd do anything in this world for her,i have never felt so strong of love for her, i never felt this strong of love for her mom even, is this gsa maybe or am i going crazy? i can't get her out of my mind, 48 swm and my daughter is 24yo swf. thanks and hope to hear from you so and its ok to ask me anything as i am a very openminded person.