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09-01-2007, 06:10 PM
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Now what?
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09-01-2007, 07:44 PM
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well, I would say things like "I wish I can hold you right now" and she would say I'd let you...
We came to the conclusion that seeing eachother soon is a must. and I'm shooting for october to fly out and see her. |
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09-08-2007, 12:48 AM
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Ozzy, I read your story as it has been unfolding. Im sure you have read the other stories on this site. I have to remind you of the pain of GSA. It may feel like the best thing youve ever experienced or will ever experience but the payoff is not worth it the pain is so much greater. I think I speak for most of us that have crossed the line. Just wait this thing out and be her brother, not her lover. Good luck
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09-08-2007, 01:13 AM
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Hope you tell her about this website.
Good luck |
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09-10-2007, 02:57 PM
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Location: Oregon
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Can't resist, must add my two cents. As someone who crossed the line with her hb, I now wish I could take it back. Yes, it was intense and incredible but not worth the pain and agony I'm in now. Try, try, try to think this scenario through before you act on it. Really, read these stories posted here. Ask her to become educated on GSA too. If the two of you do this, be as informed and prepared as you can. Good luck.
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09-11-2007, 12:06 AM
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ozzy378
I have to concur with sislovesbro and crushedsister.....TRY AND BECOME HER BROTHER, learn what that means...the temptation to consumate your relationship will be great, because we CRAVE intimacy from each other.. but "in to me see" does not require you to cross the line..really it does not... again, Ive said it before..read every single post, the good and the bad, Play out all the scenarios, take into consideration the other people whos lives you will effect..... and if after all considerations you feel that you are prepared to accept and live with all the repecussions of this, then you must do what you must. The genetic pull of this is intoxicating..remember that you will not be totally clear in your head for some time...Its a shocker this thing, dealing with the intensity, the yearning like never before...and then there are the things that happen afterwards..the need to be together stronger than with any other living person before....the sneaking around, only in rare cases can one "come out' ...ohhh there is so much to think about.... Dont go in OCTOBER.....wait a bit longer.......
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09-11-2007, 01:47 AM
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Hi Ozzy,
Just thought I'd let you know that there are those out there who are in happy and successful GSA relationships. That's not to say that life isn't difficult at times but to us it's worth it. We've got through some really bad times together and there have been times when it's been really hard to continue our relationship, but we've never doubted each other for a second. Just wanted you to have a totally balanced view - your decision is yours at the end of the day and only and your sister know if it's the right thing to do. Best of luck Red xx |
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